The Journey To Unbecoming

Not having it all together basically means that at a point everything was once in place and complete… But somewhere along the way things fell apart and you couldn’t get them to fit back just right; so you went along holding on to the displacement that you fooled yourself into believing was life. The thing…

What Happened to LoveSelfBeautiful!?

During my period of inactivity, I had vowed I was done with this blogging thing. My life had taken yet another pivot and for me LoveSelfBeautiful was becoming a dumping ground for miscellaneous thoughts rather than a structured work of art. The 15th of November was coming up and that signified an impending reflectionary period….

Dreaming = Achieving

“If you can dream it, you can do it.” –Walt Disney Start taking people’s opinions about your career and future as just that. opinions. Sometimes you can go as far as thinking their ideas about you are cute. But, never, ever, ever, fall into the trap of believing that you are not in control. Not…

Affirmation Mondays: Live your truth

Picking up on the brief discussions I had with my sister about being a feminist in 2015, I realised that to some degree, I had influenced an already unstable teenager to become even more unstable and angry as she discovered the truth of the world; that it is Patriarchal and filled with misogynists(yes, female misogynists…